Depending on the belief system you have developed over the years it becomes more difficult to make certain decisions to change for the better as a human being. However, what you have learned over time which is harmful to you can be unlearned. It will take some effort on your part to unlearn bad belief systems but it can be achieved but only by YOU. It is a decision YOU need to take everyday to unlearn. Cut the toxic umbilical cord that you are attached to and begin to think for yourself.