Although it is impossible to physically return to the past, it often appears in our minds like a long ago land. We can remember the good and the bad times that happened there, and those experiences have sculpted us into our present selves. All of our experiences, both the good and the bad, from this long ago land, have been intertwined to form a stunningly intricate knitted tapestry of moments and situations that have shaped us.

The vibrant threads in this tapestry seem to sparkle in the light, reminding us of moments of joy and happiness, and other threads are bleak and subdued, representing moments of anguish and sadness.

We all carry tales from the past. Some seen, some unseen.

As we travel through life, we build upon the tales of our past, slowly creating the tapestry of our life. Some threads may become thin and brittle, while others remain lush and vibrant. But no matter how many people tell us we must forget the past, it still works its way into our ideas, sentiments, and behaviours.

Memories of the past can bring a reminder of peace and a sense of anguish. This reminder serves as a testament to the people we have loved and hated, the mistakes we have made, and the successes we have accomplished. But it is also a place of reflection, where we can take comfort knowing that we persevered and evolved.

We may not be able to alter the past, but we can take lessons from it. We can, however, alter us for us by also forgiving us for us. We can take the wisdom we have accumulated and apply it to our current and future endeavours. We can use our past lessons to inform our decisions and shape our future for the better. Thinking critically about this long ago land and its impact on us is a vital part of our journey in life.

We can’t ignore the impact of our past, but ultimately it is our choice how it shapes us in the present. We can decide to stay in the depths of despair, or we can use it as a basis to construct a more positive future.

The decision rests in our hands.

Best,
Marcus